Every year most people make resolutions. Usually, they have to do with conquering issues that deal with self.  I admit that I make some as well, but I like to call them New Year’s goals.  For some reason the word “resolution” makes me feel like I’ll forget about it after March. I also like to make these goals for my children for the year.

Since my oldest son just graduated from high school, I’m hoping that some of my goals for him line up with his thinking. As far as my youngest goes, there are so many possibilities I know he will achieve this year. Although ASD can bring a lot of challenges, when I look back from January 2018 until now, my son has conquered a lot of goals I set for him and that makes me truly proud.

Now that 2019 is here, I want to make sure we keep moving forward and not resting on last year’s victories. As I write down goals for myself, I do the same for him.  Looking at a notepad or board with real objectives helps to keep everything in focus. Whatever method you utilize, it should always be in view. I love the refrigerator as a place to keep the goal board or even on the wall near a desk.  I also recommend tackling small objectives, so they don’t get overwhelmed with trying to complete a huge goal.  Also, since our kids usually love praise, giving them little rewards along the way seems to help their confidence as they continue the journey throughout the year.

Every year we must seize opportunities that will help our children reach their full potential. If we start out with a set of goals for our kids and we stay focused and consistent with them, there will be many victories that they will achieve throughout the year. 2019 is full of possibilities and every child deserves to take hold of all the greatness that is coming their way.